OKIE'S LATEST POST

To all of you who disagree with me, that's fine...if I could not take the heat, I would stay out of the kitchen...Yes, I become quite disturbed when people blame others for their problems in life and especially in this RV world....the question was asked what or who gave me the right to say what I said in the manner in which I said it...it's simple, I have just as much right to speak my peace as you do...if you have enough nerve to come in here and say whatever you want to say about a man in his own house, you deserve what you get...Oakie has never said an unkind word to anyone, neither has he spoken to defend himself...and just as you did not like what I said, I detest all the negative stuff I hear when people try to blame their circumstances on the man or the intel gatherers who do their best to bring you/us something to help us on the journey...to those of you who understand my position, who stand in agreement and have not backed down, we know the tricks of the enemy so let us pray, support our leaders and wait patiently for this blessing to come to fruition...

The truth does hurt at times, but we can move on, before and after the Rv comes to fruition-:o

I see Marcia. It is ok for you to become "disturbed" but no one else.

Well, now- 'Nuff said!! :cheers: That's the name of that tune!

This thread is going south, just like I knew it would- Thread is now locked- Sorry-

purpleskyz wrote:Whoa Marcia!!!!!

Now who is negative???

and how very Christian of you to act as TJ's "sledgehammer"!!!!

we can all sleep better tonight knowing that you are such a kind and caring person. WOW!!!!!!!!!

Actually I read it as a honest, well meaning post. No, her words were not easy, but they were good and not enabling. TJ unfortunately seemed to be blaming everyone but himself. Personally, I thought the post was respectful, but at the same time I was bothered by his lack of accepting responsibility for his own actions. Sometimes love means saying the hard things, and I believe that the words Marcia spoke were said in love. I commend her for her courage in saying what she said. It's unfortunate that TJ will not be able to read her words, but then again, given what was said, banning was probably in TJ's best interests.

We all have our faults and shortages, we all live in glass houses, so let's be careful with our stones.