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Post by UNEEK Thu Feb 16, 2012 1:07 am

]I feel sure Whitney is singing with the angels
-- I feel such grief for family - friends and the many lives that she
touched with her beautiful voice --Their pain will be hard to bear --

I know this kind of pain all too well and have experienced it many many times in this life time --


You cannot recover the loss but you can recover from the pain of the loss --


Time does NOT heal - it is what you do in the time that heals --


My losses and other life experiences had a purpose if for no other
reason but for me KNOW that kind of pain so I could assist and comfort
others who have suffered a loss --


I am now a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist by way of my life
experiences -- My pain just about did me in but I was totally wrapped
in Divine Protection for sure - and for a reason -


In seeking healing for my crippled and broken life I not only found
healing but became an instrument of healing -

Licensed Massage
Therapist first to address the physical pain - and then a Certified
Yoga Instructor and then a Certified Grief recovery Specialist - "
Relax" - "Release" - "Recover" - A Divine Plan that I did not plan
but followed - and it has served me well --

I am NOT here to judge or attack or call anyone out for their feelings and opinions as they do have a right to them -- They "own" them -

I feel and hope that maybe -- just maybe if I share some of my thoughts and feelings and my perspective that it will resonate with someone else and help them to understand more about their emotions and their pain -- maybe it will direct them on their path to healing --

I am a Wayseer -- I am here to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable -- If I can help others - I have helped myself

I am not the norm -- ( I am UNEEK) I know that when I speak / write - few will listen - less will hear

I feel a struggle in everything most of the time because the 90 % of the world / society is attempting every means to change - control and conform me to their standard of "norm"

I have always been going against the odds - so what else could I expect?

Will my suffering (has my suffering) be worth it - Will yours? You're darn right it will be !! Hey -- do body builders get those muscles from eating banana splits - hamburgers & fries while lying on the sofa watching TV? Heck NO!! ( heck was the word I chose)

It is ONLY by working with the weight that cannot be lifted -- They sweat - grunt - moan and groan and "persevere faithfully" every day! It is only through "resistance" working with and through the heavy and the hard that the muscles strengthen and the weight becomes easier to lift - As soon as the weight is easy to work with -- they add more --

Life is kinda the same way -- Our experiences are the opportunities for us to strengthen mentally - emotionally - and spiritually -- It is only the tough ones that can do that -- It is our perseverance - our faith - our will - and our passion that gets us through them -- It is the pressing down - pressing through and pressing on --

We get a little stronger and another experience is like a little extra weight to keep us increasing in strength in all those areas -- it is LIFE -- it is how we evolve -- Everyone's Path is different - Everyone's weight is different -- Everyone's goal is different -

We can learn in minutes through adversity what books take years to teach us --

I have come to a place and time in my life that I no longer believe that anything is quote -- right, wrong, good, bad, or evil -- It all has its purpose - It is not a perfect world -and each extreme is necessary in order to find the balance -

We all have the freedom of choices and decisions and we make them based on our knowledge - understanding and emotional state at the time --

I believe we are Spiritual Beings having a human experience -- We have human weaknesses and vulnerabilities that influence our choices and decisions --

Sometimes those choices and decisions will not give the desired results and will have an impact on our life and the lives of others -

Those consequences are sometimes unpleasant and painful but I believe they are the very experiences that mold, make, fine tune, and direct us to become who we are meant to be --

The choices and decisions that others make that do impact our lives with pain - which we can feel angry about most of the time can be a catalyst for a major growth in our lives as well as theirs -

Sometimes it takes the traumatic - the painful - the crippling devastating experience to get our attention --

Sometimes it takes the death of someone else to prevent ours -- and folks -- I make this statement with the most sincere boldness because I KNOW --

I grieved the loss of Kennedy - Elvis - Micheal Jackson -- Whitney Houston - 9/11 Victims - Japan and other places from earth disasters - Wars - My son - My Father - etc etc etc ---

EVERY life is precious -- and everyone deserves to live a full long happy one - It is not up to us to put blame or judgement anywhere -- All of you that feel Whitney "deserved" to die please tell me what you base that on -- if you are even reading this --

Have you walked in her shoes for a day? Have you experienced that kind of fame and fortune? How many lives have YOU touched with a smile or a hug? How many lives have you touched by NOT saying a kind word or giving a hug?


If I have said anything out of line - out of place - I will humbly apologize when I know what and where it was - And thank you in advance for all that persevered through this long drawn out rambling -- it may have been meant for just me


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Don't judge a life by one difficult season...

There
was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn to not judge
things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and
look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went
in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the
youngest son in the fall.

When they had all gone and come back,
he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son
said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.

The second son said
no--it was covered with green buds and full of promise.

The third son
disagreed, he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and
looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.


The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and
drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.

The man then
explained to
his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but one
season in the tree's life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or
a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are--and
the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life--can only be
measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up
when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty
of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.

Author Unknown

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Greatness lies, not in being strong, but in the right using of strength; and strength is not used rightly when it serves only to carry a man above his fellows for his own solitary glory. He is the greatest whose strength carries up the most hearts by the attraction of his own -- Bryant

“When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.” ― Wayne W. Dyer


To be persuasive, one must be believable;
To be believable, one must be credible;
To be credible, one must be truthful.

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Post by Ponee Thu Feb 16, 2012 8:36 am

Who among us can say THEY don't have the WOULD HAVES, COULD HAVES, SHOULD HAVES. We all live our lives and when we pass from this world, there is always a lot that we could have done differently. Judge not, lest ye be judged. I hate to hear what people are going to say when I depart.....wow. Heck even now, I look back and say, "What was I thinking!?". And that was only yesterday.....lol. I have a whole life of ooops. Thank goodness those who love me, have stayed with me.

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Post by Catherine Thu Feb 16, 2012 10:52 am

Thank you UNEEK!

I love to read your "ramblings"!!


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COME ON...
RV ALREADY!

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Post by abby ann Thu Feb 16, 2012 10:59 am

THANKS, VERY TRUE!!!!!HEY PONEE I KNOW WHERE YOU ARE!!!!ALL OF US FEEL THAT WAY,BECAUSE WE ARE ALL THERE TOO !!!!BUT YOUR NOT AS BAD AS YOU THINK,CAUSE JESUS LIVES IN SIDE YOU!!!!BLESS PONEE!!!AND UNEEK THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
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