Be CAREFUL in TNT CHAT....PAM Is In a REAL BAD MOOD!

by **Ssmith** on Sun Aug 30, 2015 4:38 pm

Somehow I had a feeling that Pam would be in a bad mood this afternoon!

I KNOW THAT MANY CAN NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT IS HAPPENING OR WHY IT HAS NOT HAPPENED BUT....WE KNOW IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN....WE BELIEVE THAT COULD BE ANY TIME...AND WE ARE DETERMINED TO WAIT WITHOUT COMPLAINT UNTIL IT DOES BECAUSE THIS IS WORTH WAITING FOR!

ALREADY BLESSED wrote
3m ago

NONE OF YOU HAVE GIVEN MORE THAN TONY OR RAY OR DC...MODS, TRANSCRIBERS....THOSE HERE WHO HELP OTHERS GET THROUGH IT....WE DO THIS BECAUSE WE BELIEVE IN THIS. BUT WE DO THIS WITHOUT COMPLAINT....AND THOSE HERE WHO COMPLAIN JUST MAKE IT HARDER ON THEMSELVES BUT ALSO MAKE IT HARDER ON ALL OF US TOO.

ALREADY BLESSED wrote
2m ago

PLEASE KNOW THAT WE WOULDN'T ALL STILL BE HERE IF WE DIDN'T BELIEVE....IF YOU NEED A BREAK...THEN PLEASE TAKE ONE...BUT PLEASE DON'T COME IN HERE AND DUMP IT ON ALL OF US....WE DESERVE BETTER! WE HAVE PROVEN THAT AND PROVEN OURSELVES

by **Ponee** on Sun Aug 30, 2015 4:53 pm

Already Blessed wrote:WE WOULDN'T ALL STILL BE HERE IF WE DIDN'T BELIEVE..

No, you are all still there, because you are making cold hard cash, hand over fist on that website with all the donations that you receive. THAT is the cold hard truth! If that cash flow dried up, you would ALL be on your way, heading to your next scam or con game.

by **RamblerNash** on Sun Aug 30, 2015 4:57 pm

@ssmith wrote:Somehow I had a feeling that Pam would be in a bad mood this afternoon!

ALREADY BLESSED wrote
5m ago I KNOW THAT MANY CAN NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT IS HAPPENING OR WHY IT HAS NOT HAPPENED BUT....WE KNOW IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN....WE BELIEVE THAT COULD BE ANY TIME...AND WE ARE DETERMINED TO WAIT WITHOUT COMPLAINT UNTIL IT DOES BECAUSE THIS IS WORTH WAITING FOR!

ALREADY BLESSED wrote
3m ago NONE OF YOU HAVE GIVEN MORE THAN TONY OR RAY OR DC...MODS, TRANSCRIBERS....THOSE HERE WHO HELP OTHERS GET THROUGH IT....WE DO THIS BECAUSE WE BELIEVE IN THIS. BUT WE DO THIS WITHOUT COMPLAINT....AND THOSE HERE WHO COMPLAIN JUST MAKE IT HARDER ON THEMSELVES BUT ALSO MAKE IT HARDER ON ALL OF US TOO.

ALREADY BLESSED wrote
2m ago PLEASE KNOW THAT WE WOULDN'T ALL STILL BE HERE IF WE DIDN'T BELIEVE....IF YOU NEED A BREAK...THEN PLEASE TAKE ONE...BUT PLEASE DON'T COME IN HERE AND DUMP IT ON ALL OF US....WE DESERVE BETTER! WE HAVE PROVEN THAT AND PROVEN OURSELVES

Hmmm...

I seem to recall Pam saying complaining, about complaining, is still complaining!

She wants others to stop complaining, but it's OK for her?

If Pam doesn't want people dumping problems on her, maybe she should stop creating them!

You've made your bed Pam, now sleep in it!!!

by **dwm007** on Sun Aug 30, 2015 5:19 pm

How dare you complain that our lies are not coming true!

by **Ssmith** on Sun Aug 30, 2015 5:59 pm

PAM..... You sound really upset today and I know you feel bad when you take it out on others. But there is good news out there and I brought it here just for you! Learn how to control you anger by using this information and helpful tips!

Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper

Keeping your temper in check can be challenging. Use simple anger management tips — from taking a timeout to using "I" statements — to stay in control.

By Mayo Clinic Staff

Do you fume when someone cuts you off in traffic? Does your blood pressure rocket when your child refuses to cooperate? Anger is a normal and even healthy emotion — but it's important to deal with it in a positive way. Uncontrolled anger can take a toll on both your health and your relationships. (Do you lose control when you feel the TNT empire is threatened?)

Ready to get your anger under control? Start by considering these 10 anger management tips.

1. Think before you speak

In the heat of the moment, it's easy to say something you'll later regret. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything — and allow others involved in the situation to do the same. (Think....Pam......Think!)

2. Once you're calm, express your anger

As soon as you're thinking clearly, express your frustration in an assertive but nonconfrontational way. State your concerns and needs clearly and directly, without hurting others or trying to control them. (Calmly, thoughtfully, rationally.....Not like a screaming shrew)

3. Get some exercise

Physical activity can help reduce stress that can cause you to become angry. If you feel your anger escalating, go for a brisk walk or run, or spend some time doing other enjoyable physical activities. (Get off your rear and quit stalking TNT Chat room waiting for someone to ban)

4. Take a timeout

Timeouts aren't just for kids. Give yourself short breaks during times of the day that tend to be stressful. A few moments of quiet time might help you feel better prepared to handle what's ahead without getting irritated or angry. (Give DAZ permission to give you a 5 hour timeout)

5. Identify possible solutions

Instead of focusing on what made you mad, work on resolving the issue at hand. Does your child's messy room drive you crazy? Close the door. Is your partner late for dinner every night? Schedule meals later in the evening — or agree to eat on your own a few times a week. Remind yourself that anger won't fix anything and might only make it worse. (Yes, Tony is off to prison soon & TNT will close down. That means no more donations for you. You'll need to get a job.)

Be CAREFUL in TNT CHAT....PAM Is In a REAL BAD MOOD!